? Choosing What Matters Most During the Holidays ?
The holiday season can be both beautiful and busy! With family dinners, gift shopping, work parties, and countless events, it’s easy to feel pulled in every direction. Sometimes, it feels like we have to say “yes” to everything. But instead of trying to do it all, why not focus on your “Best Yes”? ?✨ This season, say yes to the things that truly matter to you. Here’s how to make the best commitments and enjoy a more meaningful holiday season:
? 1. Think About What Really Matters to You
Before saying yes to every invitation, pause and reflect. What’s most important to you this holiday season? Spending time with family? Helping those in need? Or maybe just recharging with some quiet time? Write down what truly matters, and use that list to guide your decisions.
Example: If “spending time with family” is at the top of your list, you might choose a cozy family dinner over a big holiday party. This way, you’re focusing your time and energy where it counts.
? 2. Know the Difference Between “Good” and “Best”
The season is full of “good” opportunities—baking cookies ?, attending every event, or helping out with activities. While these are great, they might not all be your “Best Yes.” Your “Best Yes” is something that makes you feel connected, joyful, or peaceful. If something feels more stressful than meaningful, it’s okay to let it go.
Example: Saying “no” to hosting a big party might free you up to enjoy a peaceful movie night ? with loved ones—your true “Best Yes.”
? 3. Don’t Be Afraid to Say No
During the holidays, it’s tempting to say yes to everything, even if it’s overwhelming. But sometimes, saying “no” is a gift ? to yourself and your loved ones. You don’t need a big explanation—just something like, “Thank you for inviting me, but I’m focusing on family time this season.”
Example: Declining an event invitation might give you the chance to relax or start a new holiday tradition with your family.
⏳ 4. Pause and Think Before You Say Yes
When someone asks you for a commitment, don’t feel pressured to answer immediately. Take a moment to consider if it aligns with your priorities. It’s perfectly fine to say, “Let me think about it,” before deciding.
Example: Before agreeing to cook a huge holiday meal, pause and ask yourself if it fits your ideal holiday season. If it feels overwhelming, suggest a potluck or ask for help from others!
?♀️ 5. Say Yes to Yourself Too
Amidst the hustle, don’t forget to prioritize you! Taking time for yourself isn’t selfish—it recharges you so you can give your best to others. Look for ways to relax and care for yourself, like enjoying a cozy cup of coffee ☕, reading a good book ?, or going for a peaceful walk ?♀️.
Example: Dedicate one evening a week in December for “me-time.” Maybe you skip an event and instead enjoy some quiet reflection. When you say yes to yourself, you’ll feel more energized for everything else!
? Enjoy a Season of Meaningful Choices
By choosing your “Best Yes,” you’ll focus on what truly matters instead of stretching yourself too thin. You’ll create more meaningful moments ?✨ with the people you love and make memories that last.
This holiday season, choose with heart ❤️ and enjoy the joy, peace, and connection that come with it.
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! ? May your season be filled with love, laughter, and purpose.? Looking for support as you navigate this holiday season? Reach out to us HERE to learn more! ?